Love yourself by allowing opportunities to open to you

 

 

The best kind of love that we can give is to love ourselves first. That is the greatest gift we can give to humanity because by loving ourselves first we become the best form of ourselves. The best way to show love to ourselves is to be our own cheerleader especially when we have a lot of negativity that surrounds us. A lot of times we limit our success because of our beliefs about ourselves and most of the time it is a result out of fear, experience, education, logic and as an excuse. These negative beliefs that hold us back or strain us in some way just by believing them a impoverish our lives. These are called limiting beliefs. Limiting beliefs are often about us and our self-identity. The beliefs may also be about other people and the world in general. In any case, they sadly limit us.

The question is how I know it’s a limiting belief? Anything that starts with I do/don't, I can't, I must/mustn't, I am/am not, Others are/will, This is how the world works, this is how society is

Try to be more aware of what you think and how you speak to yourself. Keep a journal and write down things you feel or think. Question your beliefs, Ask why do I think that way, what do I truly feel?

Do always remember we are programmed as human beings to resist change, to not like to be out of our comfort zone. This is why we have limiting beliefs to protect ourselves from getting out of our comfort zone. But if you allow yourself to break free of these beliefs you will find a lot of opportunities can open up for you.  You are made to share your talent with the world around you. Only you can share it or stop it only when you’re ready. Once you let go of these beliefs you can start opening up the business you always wanted to do. Gain confidence. Get out of a job that you hate but feared you will not find a better job. It’s only you that limits yourself.  So open your self up to all the opportunities and possibilities and become really your own cheerleader.